Guide to Freeing Your Mind from the Threat of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …
“I’m afraid of being betrayed again, but I truly wish to find my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?
You have two ways to go here. 1) You can mope until you’ve had adequate time in between the hurt in your past relationship or 2) start moving on and releasing the past. Since you want to reach your soul mate, then I’d do the work in releasing. It is quicker and easier than you think. Getting assistance from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
Receiving guidance to do release work is a way of releasing and freeing yourself from your past. Think of releasing your emotions and letting go as forgiveness. You’re creating new area for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.
I realize some of you are crying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really needs to be forgiven for his behavior. He was wrong and that’s just that”! The energy it takes to keep a grudge presides in your space. You’re allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It’s a slow trickle in your energy level and over time, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. Furthermore, that slow energy leak prevents you from having all of your power focused in the present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you imagine you’re going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It becomes that much more difficult. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that weigh you down, muss up your energy field and block you from going forward to having the life you were meant to live. You can increase the speed of this process immensely by getting help from a life coach.
I have found that the topic of forgiveness can be a convoluted one. First off, I’m not talking of the type of forgiveness where we were excusing someone’s poor behavior. It is important to have healthy boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you want in your life and who you do not, how you desire to spend your time and with whom. It is important to realize what works for you and what does not. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of pain, you will either create more pain or have a hard time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.
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